Boundary Queen

A 4-week self-paced somatic programme for women who are ready to stop people-pleasing, build self-trust, and finally come home to themselves.

CLAIM YOUR CROWN

You're exhausted because you've spent years abandoning yourself in small ways.

You answer the text right away, you say ‘yes’ when you mean ‘no, and you take on emotional weight that isn’t yours. You apologise for having needs, you push through when your body is asking you to stop, and you tell yourself you'll rest next week.

Until you don't even know what you need anymore.

You’ve become some good at listening to others, you’ve stopped listening to yourself. You ignore the tension in your chest and the knot in your belly. You push through the exhaustion.

Boundary Queen helps you come home to yourself.

This isn't about learning to say ‘no’.

You already know what boundaries are.

You've read the books, listened to the podcasts, saved the Instagram posts. You know you're "supposed" to communicate your needs…so why is it so difficult?

The problem isn't information, it’s what happens in your body:

The guilt.

The overthinking.

The urge to explain yourself.

The fear they'll be upset.

The panic that you've been selfish.

Your nervous system associates people-pleasing with safety.

So of course you end up changing your mind, backing down and abandoning yourself again.

Boundary Queen helps your body learn a new truth:
I can honour myself without losing the people I love.

  • 'I feel like a completely different person. My self-worth has transformed and I’ve broken free from patterns I didn’t even realise I was repeating. I feel healthier, lighter, and way more confident!


    Before joining Boundary Queen, I felt pulled in a hundred directions, saying yes to things I didn’t want to and constantly appeasing others. I realised I had been sacrificing my own needs just to avoid conflict.

    Since then, everything has changed. My boundaries are stronger, my relationships are healthier, and I no longer hesitate to say no when something doesn’t feel right.’

    Olivia
    Content + Human Design Coach

  • 'I now confidently trust myself when I set a boundary.


    Before this programme I was confused about what a boundary was and when my body is telling me I needed one.

    I now know what a healthy boundary is and I am confident to set one to not be taken advantage of. You have helped me beyond measure Alicia, thank you.’

    Sasha
    Paediatric Speech and Language Therapist

  • After years of people-pleasing and burnout, I can finally set boundaries without abandoning myself.


    Alicia is so amazing at somatic work and helped me connect with parts of myself that I had forgotten about. She taught me how to use my feelings to tell me when something is a firm no or a hell yeah. Alicia, keep doing what you are doing, you are amazing!’

    Jennifer
    Breathwork Practitioner and Healer

Imagine If Boundaries Felt Natural...

Imagine saying: "No, that doesn't work for me" without spiralling for three days.

Imagine being able making decisions based on what you need instead of what everyone else expects.

Imagine trusting yourself enough to stop asking for permission.

Imagine having energy at the end of the day.

Imagine no longer feeling responsible for everyone else's emotions.

Imagine relationships built on honesty instead of performance.

Imagine what becomes possible when you stop abandoning yourself. That's what we're creating.

Why I Created Boundary Queen

For years I believed that being a good person meant always being available, helpful, hard-working, easy-going and understanding.

I ignored my body's signals over and over again because I thought everyone else's needs mattered more than my own.

Until eventually my body collapsed into an two year burnout in which I lost everything I had worked so hard for: my career, my relationship, my social life and my health.

But I finally found myself.

Learning about the nervous system changed everything. I realised I didn't need more discipline, I needed to rebuild trust with myself and learn how to hear my body's wisdom again.

Boundary Queen is the program I wish I'd had back then.

Boundaries don't begin with difficult conversations. They begin the moment you decide to believe yourself.

Who You Become When You Stop Abandoning Yourself

When self-trust grows, boundaries become inevitable. You become the woman who honours herself…especially when it's uncomfortable.

A Boundary Queen listens to herself, respects her capacity and protects her energy. She hasn’t built walls, she has come home to herself.

She no longer needs external permission to choose herself because she no longer confuses self-sacrifice with love.

She knows (in her body, not just her head) that she is worth protecting. And from that everything changes.

You'll become the woman who...

✓ checks in with herself before saying yes.

✓ trusts the tension in her body instead of talking herself out of it.

✓ rests because she needs to—not because she's earned it.

✓ allows people to be disappointed without making it mean she's done something wrong.

✓ speaks honestly without apologising for existing.

✓ protects her energy with kindness rather than guilt.

✓ knows she belongs, even when she chooses herself.

The goal is’ coming home to yourself. Boundaries are what self-respect looks like in action.

  • 'Working with Alicia was a life changing experience. I learned to feel connected to my own needs and what I want. I am saying ''no'' much sooner.


    I now feel more grounded and stronger, learned to prioritize my self care instead of constantly giving my energy away. It feels very freeing!! I choose more intentionally who I want to see and released a lot of anger during the process that also helped me a lot.’

    Debbie
    Therapist and Yoga Teacher

  • 'I used to find it so difficult, but now I easily set boundaries at work and in my dating life.


    Alicia has such a calm sweet energy, her knowledge impressed me and her answers to my questions were always very clear and helpful. The tapping was very helpful!’

    Eva
    Program Coordinator

  • 'I am now more confident in expressing my boundaries and protecting myself from other people's energy.


    Before this programme I was very anxious and doubting myself a lot, afraid of doing the wrong thing.

    I really liked the practical tips and tricks since it helps you to put things in practice straight away. As a result, I am no longer avoidant in social and work situations more and became more authentic and confident.’

    Maaike
    Brand Manager

This Is Not A Boundary Course. It's A Self-Trust Reclamation.

This isn’t a mindset course. It’s a nervous system reset. Inside Boundary Queen you'll learn how to:

  • Trust yourself enough to say ‘no’ without the spiralling afterward

  • Feel safe in your body when someone pushes back on your boundary

  • Stop abandoning your own needs to manage everyone else's comfort

  • Release the guilt that floods in every time you choose yourself

  • Rebuild the relationship with yourself that chronic overgiving has eroded

  • Recognise your body's signals before your mind has caught up

  • Set boundaries that come from self-worth, not fear, scripts or strategies

  • Become someone who honours herself, especially when it's uncomfortable

Boundaries aren't about controlling others. They're about no longer abandoning yourself.

Week 1: Your Body Already Knows

We'll explore how people-pleasing disconnects you from your own needs, identify your stress response, and map where your body is already asking for more space, rest and honesty.

The most important practice this week is learning to feel the difference between a genuine yes, a genuine no, and the guilt you've spent years mistaking for obligation.

Week 2: The Fear Underneath

This week we go into your fear and practice sitting with the discomfort of having disappointed someone, without immediately fixing it.

We work with self-soothing techniques to stay regulated when the guilt arrives so you can finally change this pattern.

Week 3: Building Self-Trust

This week is about the boundaries you have with yourself, including permission to rest.

We begin to reverse self-betrayal through somatic work and small, keepable commitments that help you to build trust with yourself.

Week 4: Boundaries in Relationships

We cover the boundary communication formula, the mistakes that silently collapse a boundary (over-explaining, over-apologising, softening until it disappears), and pre-written scripts for work, family, friends, and romantic partners — taught somatically, so your body learns them, not just your mind.

Is Boundary Queen For You?

✓ You constantly put everyone else's needs before your own.

✓ You know what boundaries are but struggle to hold them.

✓ You feel guilty resting.

✓ You overthink difficult conversations.

✓ You're tired of abandoning yourself.

Boundary Queen isn't for you if...

✗ You're looking for scripts without inner work.

✗ You're hoping everyone else will change.

✗ You're not ready to look honestly at your own patterns.

Join Boundary Queen

You'll receive:

✓ 4 in-depth lessons

✓ 4 guided somatic practices

✓ Worksheets

✓ Lifetime access

✓ Learn at your own pace

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FAQs

  • Because most boundary work only addresses the mind. When you're in the room with someone who triggers you, logic and affirmations disappear and your nervous system takes over.

    Boundary Queen works at the somatic level first, so your body learns that boundaries are safe before you're ever asked to say the words. That's why the shifts stick. It's not willpower. It's nervous system rewiring.

  • Boundary Queen is not just more information, it's about transformation. We combine mindset with somatic and energetic practices, community, and embodiment tools to create real change. You don’t just learn about boundaries, you become someone who lives them.

  • No. Boundary Queen is a coaching and somatic education programme, not therapy.

    If you're working through significant trauma, I'd encourage you to do this alongside (not instead of) individual therapeutic support. The somatic practices are gentle and accessible.

  • While this is a group program, you’ll have the opportunity for hot seat coaching during sessions, and personalised feedback in our private group. If you'd like deeper support, the VIP options offers exclusive 1:1 coaching add-ons.

  • Yes! All sessions are held on Zoom and scheduled to accommodate multiple time zones. Replays are always available if you can't make it live.

  • This program is designed to give you time back. With 1-hour sessions and simple weekly practices, you can go at your own pace, while learning how to stop overcommitting in the first place.

  • Because of the digital nature of this product, all purchases like Boundary Queen are final, as the space, materials, and support are reserved for you from the moment of purchase.

  • I can guarantee you'll have the tools, practices, and community to shift your boundaries. I can't guarantee when your nervous system will feel safe, that timeline is individual. But every woman who shows up and does the work experiences a shift.

    Some women set a boundary by week 2. Others take the full 4 weeks. Some continue shifting months after. The important thing is that the foundation is solid.